In recent times being a baby mama has become a trend all over the world and some ladies seem not to care whether they walk down the aisle with their baby daddy or not.
A young lady has taken to social media to reveal why she does not want to end up being a baby mama but reveals interest in having a taste of marriage.
This lady, whose name was not disclosed, narrated how she gave birth to six children for the same guy but he is not ready for marriage but changes her engagement ring after every childbirth. She added that she has found an older lover who is ready to marry her.
She said: “I have six kids for him but yet he still does not want to marry me all he does is reengage me for each child I have for him, he will change my engagement ring to a new one. But I love this guy and he loves me too but he does not want to marry me, he is very comfortable and ok so am I too but he does not want to make a move, he keeps saying he is not ready yet let our kids grow up. So I started dating again more like cheating with an older man, now he is serious with me and saying he wants to marry me, I told him about my kids and he said he does not mind since he has kids too and they are all grown up, he just wants a companion since his wife is late. But do you think I should leave my man for this other guy who is ready to marry me? Will it be a betrayal? I want a man of my own, I don't want to end up a baby mama without feeling marriage. I need advice.”
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Please what is your sincere advice to this lady?
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