What would you do if you found yourself in this position?
According to reports, a woman recently discovered she had been married to and living with a woman who had pretended to be a man for the entire three years they had been together.
The shocked wife identified as Memory Danzi, said she had discovered her 'husband' Clemence George Chibaya Chiwenga was a woman after she had managed to walk in on him/her having a bath one day.
An angry Danzi lodged a complaint at the Dangamvura police station, where Clemence was arrested and charged with aggravated indecent assault. With the police trying to decide between locking her up in the male or female cell, Clemence admitted she was a woman and thus they decided to lock her up alone in a cell.
Narrating her story, Danzi (the scorned wife) said:
“I fell in love with this ‘man’ in 2013, but I later went and stayed in Macheke. I came back to Mutare in 2015 and we reignited our romance. Before ‘he’ dated me, I only knew ‘him’ as a carpenter and ‘he’ used to repair my furniture. Then, ‘he’ had a wife and ‘he’ used to come to my house in the afternoon and went back to his wife in the evening. In August this year ‘he’ separated from his wife and came to stay with me at my house. ‘He’ told me that ‘he’ chased his wife away because she wanted to poison ‘him.
I was surprised one of the days when I told one of my children, Masset, to go and do our laundry. She went and did the laundry from a nearby stream. I did not know that Chiwenga’s pants were among the dirty clothes. What she saw shook him and she came to show me."
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In our relationship ‘he’ didn’t want me to caress ‘him’. He didn’t want me to remove ‘his’ clothes. His’ breasts are bigger than mine and when I asked ‘him’ to explain the abnormality, ‘he’ said they were big because ‘he’ was a weightlifter. One day I gave ‘him’ hot water to bath and I followed ‘him’ in the bathroom. When I got in I got the shock of my life. I asked ‘him’ why ‘he’ lied all these years and ‘he’ asked for forgiveness. I told ‘him’ to leave my house, but ‘he’ refused. I later discovered that ‘he’ was using a pestle in making love to me. I confronted ‘him’ over the issue and ‘he’ confessed that ‘he’ would put two condoms on the pestle each time we become intimate.
I located the pestle and hid it. We quarrelled over the pestle as I wanted to take it to the police and ‘he’ wanted to destroy it. I managed to hide it under the mattress. Every time we slept together I felt deep pain and I had difficulties in walking because of the pestle ‘he’ used. I later opened up to my relatives and told them everything. Right now I am having endless menstrual periods because of that pestle ‘he’ used.”
Clemence however denies ever using pestle on her, claiming she lied against him/her for refusing to give her money.
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